"St Augustine defines virtue as ordo amoris, the ordinate condition of the affections in which every object is accorded that kind of degree of love which is appropriate to it.11 Aristotle says that the aim of education is to make the pupil like and dislike what he ought.12 When the age for reflective thought comes, the pupil who has been thus trained in 'ordinate affections' or 'just sentiments' will easily find the first principles in Ethics; but to the corrupt man they will never be visible at all and he can make no progress in that science.13 Plato before him had said the same. The little human animal will not at first have the right responses. It must be trained to feel pleasure, liking, disgust, and hatred at those things which really are pleasant, likeable, disgusting and hateful."

CS Lewis The Abolition of Man

Wednesday, May 05, 2010

The Literature of Honor for Boys

(Here is a reprint of a book list I supplied to the CSTHEA Esprit on the heels of an article I wrote on honor.)

(AND here is my update for LITTLE BOYS)

Instilling Honor in Boys Through Literature

Last month we learned that we are failing to give our boys a reason to learn. We learned that boys are motivated by honor and that our society has left them without hope. We also learned that one antidote to the problem may be using great literature to motivate our sons to pursue honor. But what books should they read?  I recently asked a group of longtime homeschooling mothers, women I highly respect, what books they recommended. The following is what I gleaned from raising my own sons and also the suggestions of these moms. I have broken the list down into 3 parts: fiction, poetry, and biographies. With a few added additions this is a fine list for girls also but as we have seen our girls are still motivated, more motivated than ever before, it is our boys who are struggling.

Noticeably missing from the list are books I would classify as Victorian moralism.  The group of women I surveyed almost unanimously agreed that moralism is antithetical to real heart change.  My friend, Chris,  put it this way, “Moralism looks good on the outside, which makes mothers feel more comfortable with their children: if they look good on the outside, I must be doing things right. It is just another kind of legalism. But in a world out of control and chaotic, one is always willing to sell their liberty for tyranny that will bring order. It's an old, old story.”  Our goal is not to produce self-righteous prigs like our old friend Eustace Scrubbs before he met the dragon (See: The Voyage of Dawn Treader) but rather to motivate our sons by the examples of true heart change whether that heart change is in the real man Stonewall Jackson or the fictional mouse Reepicheep.   When we read of these sorts of characters we don’t feel smug and good we feel challenged and even ashamed.  We question our own motives and behaviors.  In the best cases, we repent.

Fiction:


2.     The White Company Arthur Conan Doyle (Sir Gerhard and Sir Nigel. Not as well-known as his Sherlock Holmes books, but for illustrating honor they cannot be beat.Check the public domain for these other Doyle books)
 The White Company (Books of Wonder)
3.     The 39 Steps etc by John Buchan (all Richard Hannay books. People often love 39 Steps but don’t realize there are at least 3 sequels.  Greenmantle is next followed by our family favorite Mr Standfast.)
4.     The Scottish Chiefs by Jane Porter, In Freedom’s Cause by GA Henty and others dealing with Scottish liberty.
The Scottish Chiefs (N. C. Wyeth: Scribner's Illustrated Classics)
5.     Black Fox of Lorne by Marguerite de Angeli

6.     Sugar Creek Gang by Paul Hutchens (I highly recommend seeking out the originals rather than the updates.)
7.     CS Lewis The Chronicles of Narnia, The Space Trilogy, The Screwtape Letters. (Don't forget The Abolition of Man by Lewis describes in depth our dilemma.)
8.     Little Britches series by Ralph Moody 
"Son, there is no question but what the thing you have done today deserves severe punishment. You might have killed yourself or the        horse, but much worse than that, you have injured your own character. A man's character is like his house. If he tears boards off his house and burns them to keep                   himself warm and comfortable, his house soon becomes a ruin. If he tells lies to be able to do the things he shouldn't do but wants to, his character will soon become a ruin.  A man with a ruined character is a shame on the face of the earth." 

That is just a small taste of the riches available to your sons in Ralph Moody’s books.
9.     Captains Courageous by Rudyard Kipling (Kipling is a among the best authors for boys.  Try Jungle Book,  Just so Stories and Stalky and CO.)
10. Sir Gawain and the Green Knight, The Hobbit, Lord of the Rings and others by JRR Tolkien (Don’t miss Tolkien’s Farmer Giles of Ham.)
11. Ivanhoe and others by Walter Scott
12. Redwall series by Brian Jacques
13.  The Princess & Curdie and others by George MacDonald
14.  The Wind in the Willows by Kenneth Grahame
15.  Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen (Don’t underestimate the power of this book for boys. They naturally like Mr Darcy.)
16.  Rolf and the Viking Bow by Allen French (French is an author worth searching out.)

The Story of Rolf and the Viking Bow (Living History Library)
17.  The Marsh King by Walter Hodges
18.   GA Henty (In spite of the fact that Henty is formulaic fiction; he does manage to tell the kind of stories boys love.  Some of his books are even good literature.  At least read a  few Henty’s: The Boy Knight, In Freedom’s Cause, etc.)
19.  The Little House on the Prairie series by Laura Ingalls Wilder. (This is NOT a feminine series. The hero is Pa.  Is there a better book for boys than Farmer Boy?)

Farmer Boy (Little House)
20.   Robinson Crusoe by Daniel Defoe

Biographies:

1.     Man Called Peter by Catherine Marshall
2.     Quiet Strength by Tony Dungy ( Great book for the athletes in the house.)
4.     Childhood of Famous American (COFA) books for younger boys (Our favorites are William Penn, Francis Marion, Stonewall Jackson, Lou Gehrig)
5.     Leaders in Action series edited by George Grant (Our favorites are Carry a Big Stick (Teddy Roosevelt) and Never Give In (Winston Churchill))
6.     Of Courage Undaunted  by James Daughtery

Of Courage Undaunted
7.     Christian biographies such as Borden of Yale, Jim Elliot, Eric Liddell, Hudson Taylor etc.
8.     Mornings on Horseback and other books by David McCullough

Mornings on Horseback: The Story of an Extraordinary Family, a Vanished Way of Life and the Unique Child Who Became Theodore Roosevelt


Poetry:


1.     Idylls of the King by Tennyson
2.     If by Rudyard Kipling
3.     Opportunity by Edward Sill
4.     The Charge of the Light Brigade by Tennyson
5.     The Leak in the Dike by Cary
6.     Casabianca by Hemans
7.     The Village Blacksmith by Tennyson
8.     Horatius at the Bridge by MacCaulay





22 comments:

  1. Printing and putting in the file marked *Grandchildren*

    Thanks for sharing.

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  2. Thank you Thank you Thank you.

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  3. Great list, Cindy! Posting to my facebook for my friends who are always asking for booklists. :)

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  4. Awesome list! We LOVE Ralph Moody here, and I recommend him all the time even though I don't know anyone who believes us when we say how good they are! Will look into the things on the list I don't know myself!

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  5. Great list...Mr. Standfast is my favorite, too.

    I don't like the poem "Casabianca," though, as it shows a boy following orders blindly, and dying for it; I want my children to obey me (and God!) but to also be wise about their actions in dire circumstances. I would use that poem to talk about obedience and if there are ever times when one needs to seek honorable alternatives...rarely, but perhaps in dangerous moments.

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  6. Great post, Cindy! Put a few on my wish list. Could be good reading this summer for my boy!

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  7. Thanks for this great list. I, too, am printing it for reference. After a string of girls, I'm teaching my oldest boy how to read, and I'm already looking for good 'boy' books at his level.
    Lisa in Germany (but only for 2 more months!)

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  8. It's great to have so many books of honor in one place, Cindy. By the way, the audio version of "Farmer Giles of Ham" with Derek Jacobi is our very favorite audio book ever. We have worn out two copies of the tape and I'm saving my pennies to get it on CD. It is superb!

    I need to dig some of these books back out for my youngest son. I keep forgetting ones that I read with the older boys but he doesn't remember. Right now, though, I am reading through all four of the King Arthur books by Pyle. He begs for them every day. :)

    Thanks for all of your encouragement re: boys. It gives me hope for the future.

    Joy

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  9. Cindy, thank you so much for this! On our trip south recently, we listened to the first 3 books of the Kingdom series by Chuck Black and thought they were VERY well done audio-wise and excellent in promoting the theme of honor. All our boys and even the girls begged for me to turn these on and want us to get the next ones-Are you familiar with these at all? They seem so far to promote what you were mentioning. What are your thoughts? Blessings, Kim Barfield

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  10. My girls have read most of these as well. It makes their standard very high indeed when it comes to "partner picking"!! I encourage all mothers to have their sons read them - for us mothers of mostly daughters. :-)

    My son doesn't talk much about the books, but I believe that he is being changed by them deeply anyway.

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  11. Thanks for this list:-) Just yesterday I started thinking about looking for books in this direction for my six year old:-) You've given me a bit of a head start:-)

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  12. Thanks so much for taking the time to post this list. It is so helpful as I often feel at a loss to supply my voracious reader (age 10) with good books that he'll enjoy, and not more 'twaddle'.

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  13. why does Stalky and Co make the list? I know we all have different standards, but I didn't like it. Maybe I missed the point. Could you give me a defence of it?

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  14. 1. Kipling
    2. British boarding school (my own love of that sort of story)
    3. humor
    4. masculinity portrayed somewhat realistically. I recognize those boys.
    5. lack of moralism

    I usually don't answer anonymous comments but it was a fair question. I think the Internet is more profitable if we keep accountability by not being anonymous. I say this to reiterate my policy for new readers.

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  15. Thank you for this list.

    I have referred back to it often, and sent several other mothers over here who are looking for good, quality literature for their boys.

    Thank you!

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  16. Thank you for this list! I pinned it to Pinterest's Parent Water Cooler and on my blog's Facebook page, https://www.facebook.com/pages/Totus-Tuus-Family-Catholic-Homeschool/285307812834.

    Now I am off to tweet it. Great resource!

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  17. I know this is an old post, but I'm just finding it. Thank you so much! I'm wondering if you could possibly give an example (title or two?) of what you categorize as "Victorian Moralism"? ~Mommy of Little Boys

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  18. I know this is an old post but do you have any good "literature of honor" books for little boys? I would appreciate it so much!

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    1. Lauren,
      I plan to write a blog post today about that.

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  19. Amie,
    Sorry to take so long to answer you. I think of Victorian moralism as those pull-yourself-up-by-your-bootstraps-alone type books such as written by Horatio Alger. I like those books in small doses every once in a while. But a worse moralism is the whole genre of books written in Victorian times such as Elsie Dinsmore whose righteousness seems to stem from her own goodness rather than the work of Christ. I don't mean to imply that this sort of moralism is limited to Christian books but very often when it comes to literature Christians mistake a goody-two-shoes for true righteousness. S

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    1. Aww, thank you so much for answering my question (I just remembered to check back with you). I've been quietly following/reading your blog(s) off and on for a few years now. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and experience with all of us.

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    2. Aw, thank you so much for answering my question (I'm just remembering to check back with you). I've been quietly following your blog(s) off and on for a few years now. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and experience with all of us.

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